If you are unhappy where you are in life, it could be you are not creating the right vision of yourself. Think back to recent thoughts you had. Were they negative thoughts or feelings like you’ve hit a roadblock?
Focus on who you want to become
Shift your focus to a life that you want or the person that you want to become. This must be your own dream, your own vision. The biggest mistake you can make is to strive to be someone else. Also start from where you are currently so that you are not totally unrealistic about what you want. This will only discourage you.
Various pathways to your goal
When you create a positive image within your mind, it will set up neural pathways to help you reach your goals. The more you reinforce this mental image the more pathways will be created. If there is information available online that can help you with your vision, use it to your advantage.
Determine a clear vision with very specific action steps
When you have determined your vision and the steps you believe will help you get there, continue to imagine that vision. Do this on a daily basis. Your brain will get so used to this vision it will become a subconscious process.
If altering your vision your brain will form new pathways
This is not to say you can’t alter your plan or your vision. There may be something you thought you wanted, but as you progress, you find this not to be the case. There is nothing wrong with that. If this happens, create another vision and move on from there. Your brain will form pathways for this new vision.
If your vision is fine but the plan is not getting you where you need to be, don’t be afraid to make changes to it. Plans are only guidelines. They can be changed as needed. This can happen when new information comes to light along the way, information that wasn’t available when you first got started.
Create a winning vision for yourself and stay focused
Be prepared for criticism while creating this new vision for yourself. It is yours and yours alone. People may not understand what you are trying to accomplish. Hold to your beliefs and prove them wrong. Your critics are not the ones who have to live with the vision or end result, that you have for yourself. You will find when you reach your goals, those same critics will suddenly be on your side. They will even claim to have been there for you all along. It’s annoying, but that is how people behave. It’s not worth the aggravation. Just move on with your vision and let them think whatever they want.
Stay Strong! Follow your Dreams and Vision for Yourself!
Peace, Love & Kindness,
